Working this out can take some time. Polyamorous relationships can not just work but truly be happy and fulfilling for everyone involved. That said they are not for everyone. Monogamy is good too.
Messed up over abandonment
You are the one left out in the cold
Not everyone is gifted with gaydars, that incredible ability to sense if someone is a homosexual just by one glance. But imagine this: what if you fall in love with a woman—and even marry her—without knowing that she is, in fact, a lesbian? Mind you, many a man has tied the knot with a lesbian without knowing.
1. The husband becomes furious and forces "the other woman" out of the picture.
News Corp is a network of leading companies in the worlds of diversified media, news, education, and information services. I CAME home early one night and heard moaning from the bedroom. To my astonishment I saw my wife in our bed with another woman. I never suspected my wife had lesbian tendencies. The other woman left and I sat downstairs. My wife joined me and did seem quite embarrassed. I was still shaking with shock. I said to her that I thought we needed to talk.
I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in such as marriage equality.