D o lesbians have better sex than heterosexual women? Oh my God, yes! Women who sleep with women repeatedly report higher levels of sexual satisfaction in surveys and studies than women who have sex with men.
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Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Sophie Saint Thomas. It should go without saying that sex between two women is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, there's a lot of misinformation out there. So when two people with vulvas are having sex , I think a lot of folks don't understand how that works since there's no penis. To clarify some misconceptions — and, of course, to give women who have sex with other women some hot ideas — I rounded up a list of fun sex position suggestions. FYI: These aren't just for lesbians! They can be enjoyed by queer women, bisexual women , pansexual women , or even straight-identifying women looking to explore, as well as non-binary and trans people with vulvas. I identify as queer and bisexual , I've had sex with both men and women, and I'm also attracted to non-binary people.
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Your first time having lesbian sex , or girl-on-girl slash vulva-on-vulva sex, can be pretty nerve racking and daunting. No matter how confident you are, or how much lesbian porn you've watched which FYI, is not realistic AT ALL all vaginas are different and like to stimulated in different ways. So if you're in need of some tips on how to have sex with a girl or vulva-having person, here's what you need to know - from how to beat the nerves, to which lesbian sex positions to try. I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do? If you've had male or penis-having sexual partners before, that may help inform a fair bit of what you do, but it still might feel strange to be giving what you have previously received. The good news is that although tips and tricks are handy, sex is still largely intuitive whatever genders or bodies it's between.
Having no predetermined sexual script looming over you gives you the freedom to do whatever the f works for you. With vulva to vulva non bonery, you also have a slight home court advantage of knowing your way around the equipment, since you've got similar stuff going on between your legs. And if you don't happen to possess a vulva sorry, mate , you can still use some of these tips to get a few ideas about what kinds of things a woman might like. If you both love the kind of orgasm that come from grinding against something , create a win-win situation with a mutual hand grind. Lie face down side-by-side. Fill your hand with lube and cup it under your girl's vulva, while she does the same for you. As you get more turned on thrusting against their hand, you can feel their body responding to your hand and, well, it's pretty effing heady. Turn your heads to gaze at each other to make it even more intimate.